I can change her!
I can convince her to live a life free from sexual sin!
I love him so much
I can’t leave him
I can convince him
I can help change him
I can help him live a life free from sexual sin.
My sister, my brother, only God that can change a person and of course when they are really ready to change. The Holy Spirit convince a man of his sin, he feels true remorse then go to Christ and confess his sin then seek pardon and get the gift of salvation and the gift of a new life in Christ to live above sin. No, you just can’t do this, even Christ had to pay With His own blood in other to have that power of changing man. So trust me when I say you’re not helping yourself, neither are you helping that man or woman.
If you want to help them, dissolve that relationship and lead them to Christ!
The more you stay there battling with their differences, covering up their sins, encouraging their acts as so called weakness, the more you keep doing that, you end up doing certain things to please them then quickly asking for forgiveness out of guilt and before you know it, you get tired of asking for forgiveness and forget your sexual Purity stand, backside to hold ways, because you keep holding on to them.
A spoilt fruit put together with a healthy good fruit will spoil the good fruit over a period of time. A spoilt tomato stored together with a good tomato over a period of time will spoil the good tomato, yes, that good tomato will be contaminated by thesame diseases. The only way a farmer can prevent this from happening is by hand picking all bad tomatoes, separating them from the good ones then wash the good ones clean and store in the right place away from the spoilt tomatoes.
A rotten egg joined together with a good egg will spoil, contaminate or cover the good egg with a very bad odour that you won’t be able to differentiate the good from the bad. It is also commonly said, bad company corrupts good character. If you must remain pure and holy, you need to let go of the impure.
Seperate, wash yourself in the blood of the Lamb, lead them to Christ, do not help them cover up or encourage them by staying there. Remember, staying with them is like giving them the hope of being able to seduce or push you to sexual sin some day and that hope is so strong that they will never see a need to repent or change.
But can we be friends? Yea, at arm’s length, a far position where you won’t be influenced negatively. But never be intimate with them
[KJV] – 1 Corinthians 15:33
Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners.
[NLT] – Galatians 5:8 It certainly isn’t God, for he is the one who called you to freedom.
Fighting Sinful Addiction|Published with permission