When you first met your wife, she was the most beautiful woman. You called her your Queen, your darling, your baby, your sweet heart. Soon, you got married, life was good. You loved each other so much.
Then sudden she got pregnant, sudden her looks began to change, from a beauty queen to something else. Her face and legs swelled. She loses her shape and figures. After she put to bed, she started to breastfeed your child, her tummy protrudes. She looks like she is in her 60s or 70s.
Now, Instead of you to help her repair herself body, improve her beauty, get rid of that tummy and swelling, you simply abandon her. You dislike her looks. You some times hate to see her. Suddenly your darling become GET OUT OF MY FACE, or I DONT WANT TO SEE YOU. So problems start. You start to create problems that dont exist. You make every thing a big deal. Then you start to see other women. And that’s how the marriage get destroyed.
Brother look, a woman is like a CAR. When you purchase a Car, after sometimes, you need to repair it, sometimes you service the engine, sometimes you change some parts with new parts. All in order to enjoy driving it and to last longer.
Likewise a woman. She cooks for you for years, dresses you for years, conceives for you for years, breastfeeds your child until her beautiful breasts collapse. By Now, both you and your children have drained and exhausted her. So, what should a good man do? You repair her by Taking her to place where women are fixed after their delivery.
Give her money to take those post pregnancy therapies. Buy new cloths. Make her comfortable. Take her out time to time. Reduce her chances of getting angry and depressed. Brothers That’s how you fix your wives.
But Instead, as soon as she begin to look tired, most men would want to marry again. Brother, the problem is not your wife, the problem is you. Even if you marry 100 women, they will also deteriorate because that’s the nature of life. Everything deteriorates with time. I’m sure if many men were to take good care of their wives, their wives will last longer, their body and shape will remain intact, so much that they don’t need to marry again.
Brothers and sisters, this is what we should be doing to our wives. Make sure they are happy. Make sure they gets what they wants. Because depression and sadness can destroy women. She deserves it , because you took her away from her parents. You take over that responsibility the very day you married her from them.
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