Some brothers are very inconsistent and spiritually unstable. They have proposed to three or four sisters at the same time without waiting to receive answer from one before approaching another. Yet they are praying and fasting for divine intervention on whom to marry.
Some sisters, have hung up about six or seven proposed brothers in the air, without telling them “Yes” or “No”. They just enjoy the way the brothers pursue after them as flies pursue sugar-cane. They don’t even know what The Lord is saying concerning any of them. Yet they desire that The Lord would give them a very loving and dedicated man as husband.
Source: Evang. Mike Bamiloye